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So just be sure that the rewards of the behaviour justify, to you, the costs of being seen (incorrectly in your view) as unethical by others.
The love of your life might be worth more to you than a idle few dates.(That said, personally I think the important issue here is that most people in a position to judge this kind of thing, don't judge this unethical, rather than the issue that even if they do it needn't matter.
I was reading the situation as saying that the potential datee is really out of academia entirely..I forgot that we sometimes write nonacademic recommendation letters.For instance: I hasten to add that none of these point to any clear ethical lapse or mistake on your part.In particular, the idea that it is disturbing for a much older (adult) to date a much younger (adult) may be more of a societal taboo/hangup than anything that can be rationally justified.student, so there is no present power dynamic, conflict of interest or anything like that.However, you should be prepared for those in your department to find out that you are dating a former student, which could create a certain amount of push back.
Demanding that a person doesn't date would be undue Tyranny of the majority.